And here I thought 2020 would be my year. I am in love, getting married, getting my dream job. Seemed to have a good start. But now I find my self neck high in the crap that is the Corona Virus.

For those that are just starting to plan a wedding, one piece of advice is to read your contracts and the cancellation policies. What I find annoying is the fact that the only reason I have to cancel is because there is a global crisis. Not because I changed my mind. Yet I have a DJ who won’t give me back my deposit because of the contract. I’m sorry but we’re you planning on coming to my wedding anyway? Because at the moment we are shelter in place. If you canceled on me would you give me my money back?

The logic on it is stupid to me. I get why they have a cancellation policy. People change their mind but I feel like they could be more understanding of my situation. I knew a wedding would make me broke. But I was going to be broke but have a slammin party. Now I’m broke. No party.

I get that this is hitting hard for everyone. But honestly unless you are giving me a service…why the heck am I paying you?

Anyway this was more of a rant than an informative post.